Nollywood veteran actress, Evangelist Patience Ozokwor, has revealed how
she was forced into marriage by her parents at the age of 19.
Ozokwor,
fondly called ‘Mama G’, said she did not see any reason why her parents
forced her into marriage at that age, adding that they just wanted her
to get married.
She said as a child, born into a polygamous family, her mother was eager to see her get married before other children.
In
an interview with RTV, the actress said, “It was not my decision [to
get married at 19]. And if it’s not my decision it means I was forced
into it. I was forced into it many years ago, and I did not see any
reason my parents were forcing me as I was still young.
“And
even at that age, I had so many suitors. You know when you come from a
polygamous family and your mother is struggling for her own daughters to
get married and this other one is also struggling for her own daughters
to get married and when this one [suitor] came around and my mother
said go and I could not make a choice. I was not allowed to make a
choice. At the end, I had to obey my parents. I was not brought up to
disobey them at all."
When asked if she enjoyed the marriage after she obliged her parents push, she added, “Sincerely speaking as a Christian I did not. The marriage was not easy at all for me as a young girl, it was not easy.”
She
said no matter all she went through in the marriage, she had to stay on
because her parents' eyes were on her and could not jump from one man
to the other.
Patience further advised women to remain in their
matrimonial homes no matter what, adding that the only reason a woman
should separate from her husband is when life is involved.
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